 Boxing? You crazy ah what?’ it was the response I got from my dad when I  first told him that I wanted to be a boxer. Things were difficult with  my family then, we struggled to make ends meet, my dad was a cane cutter  and one of those traditional Indo-Trinidadians who didn’t understand  why his daughter was joining a gym when she could be studying or working  instead. I really wanted to do better for my family but at the same  time I had a fascination with muscles. And so, my boxing chance came  when I stumbled upon the Fine Line Fight Factory Gym (my home gym now).  After making some enquiries about fees and schedule, despite my  uncertainty (I didn’t know how I was going to pay the fees and tell my  parents that I was joining a gym) my boxing journey began on August 24th  1995. Armed with a five dollar bill, some singles and a handful of  coins I paid my fees and began my first weight training session.
Boxing? You crazy ah what?’ it was the response I got from my dad when I  first told him that I wanted to be a boxer. Things were difficult with  my family then, we struggled to make ends meet, my dad was a cane cutter  and one of those traditional Indo-Trinidadians who didn’t understand  why his daughter was joining a gym when she could be studying or working  instead. I really wanted to do better for my family but at the same  time I had a fascination with muscles. And so, my boxing chance came  when I stumbled upon the Fine Line Fight Factory Gym (my home gym now).  After making some enquiries about fees and schedule, despite my  uncertainty (I didn’t know how I was going to pay the fees and tell my  parents that I was joining a gym) my boxing journey began on August 24th  1995. Armed with a five dollar bill, some singles and a handful of  coins I paid my fees and began my first weight training session. 
I  have shared this testimony with the girls and women I mentor and teach  at my programme- Boxing Beyond the Ring (BBR), all the time. Actually,  it’s this sacrifice which made me embark upon such a programme in the  first place. An introductory programme to boxing and self-defense,  whereby participants spend six weeks training under the guidance of  qualified coaches, the aim of BBR is to educate people about the  benefits of the sport, the fact that boxing is a sporting opportunity as  well as a socially uplifting and developmental tool. It marries the  physical and psychological training required to elevate self-esteem and  improve confidence, to develop self-efficacy and to become equipped with  self–protection techniques which can be employed when confronted with  unwanted situations. It was my boxing back story which brought me to  this new purpose which is the enhancement of other women and girls with  boxing, my vehicle.
My boxing back story. It is a bittersweet saga of  sadness yet success. An obstacle course with a trophy in the far  distance- many of the women I mentor have their fair share of hurdles  and many times their vision of reward is blocked. Boxing taught me how  to jump over these hindrances and claim victory as sometimes your  hurdles can be right at your doorstep. My first hurdle was the countless  arguments with my dad  (I only told him about my enrollment in the gym  after I decided to participate in an in-house karate competition). My  dad served his role in my journey, however, for his wrath propelled my  fast growing resilience and determination. Within no time, my sporting  appetite increased as kickbox-ing beckoned and being the chump I am for a  challenge, I sidestepped my way into the class.
Life became  disciplined afterwards but my commitment wasn’t only because of  competition. Sometimes the benefits of sport come outside the realm of  competition. Back then being a champion in the ring wasn’t my real  focus, I just wanted to experience a fight in the square circle, I  wanted to do something outside of my comfort space, I wanted to build  character. This is a philosophy some of the older women in my classes  observe. Like the fifty-something-year-old woman who enrolled in BBR  because boxing and self-defence was on her “to do” list, it was a  challenge she wanted to undertake in her lifetime. Boxing was on my “to  do” list as well. I would fantasise, I would dream, I would envision  myself climbing over the ropes, bouncing into the ring, executing my  kicks and punches skillfully and then having my hand raised in victory,  just like I had seen happen with the guys from the gym. 
On March  28th 1998, a big part of this dream came through. I climbed over the  ropes, fought my heart out, but my hand wasn’t raised. I almost threw a  tantrum in the ring as they announced it a draw. It was my first clash  with the darker side of sport, the unfairness and favouritism in the  ring. As the crowd booed the decision, I was gently led out the ring by  my coach and team mates and I realised that it could have been worse.  When the coach of your opponent is the promoter and the referee of the  bout, and the judges are the friends of your opponent, you know you did  good with a draw. 
Never give up; success comes after failure… A year  and a half later I would have my chance again and this time I didn’t  leave it to the judges. With some heavy punches, I forced the referee to  save my opponent, and this time the glee was only too apparent as I  clapped like a child in the ring. I will never forget that moment, it  was one of the best ever in my career. That’s why I always implore the  young girls in the gym to never give up on life. BBR includes a cast of  many girls and women who have been served with some of the harshest  realities as the programme partners with St Jude’s School for Girls, the  Organisation for Abused and Battered Individuals (OABI) and other  Women’s Empowerment organisations. This positive attitude in the midst  of adversity is important in their advancement.
Pain is the prelude  to perfect- it’s another saying I impart to the girls. My taste of  international competition was painful at times (black eyes and hard  punches). It was the moment when my father realised that come hell or  high water, I was into my sport for better or worse. After losing a  tough fourth-round battle to a world champion who weighed 16 pounds  heavier, I came home and didn’t miss a beat- I trained against my  coach’s orders. But my stubbornness would pay off when two weeks later I  made my professional boxing debut and scored a second-round knockout.
Soon  I became chronic when it came to training. Boxing and kickboxing became  the centre of my world and while I dealt with different jobs, studies  and personal issues, I found salvation in the gym. And that’s the thing  about sport; it is a very constructive distraction away from life’s  stresses. But in as much as boxing was a great distraction, it wasn’t an  easy road. The humps, potholes, bumps and barricades were frequent and  threatened to discourage me on several occasions. But with the faith,  motivation and belief of my coach, Bharrath Ramoutar, I continued to  trek the treacherous road. By then he had seen world champion written in  my destiny, he had seen the discipline and dedication that even I  wasn’t aware I showed. He saw when others didn’t. My mother’s blessings  and the rest of my family’s support upheld me. Five years after my pro  debut, I accepted the challenge for a world title and what a battle it  was. The fight to get the fight was a Herculean task by itself. I  remember the struggle to pull things together, the lack of funds, the  naysayers, those within the boxing fraternity itself who laughed at us.  Coming from a kickboxing background, being a cane-cutter’s daughter and  being bold enough to contest for a world boxing title didn’t sit well  with many.
After paying the fees necessary to sanction the bout,  Ramoutar and I had only enough money left to buy one Gatorade. At the  weigh-in, he was forced to literally beg the then chairman of the  Trinidad and Tobago Boxing Board of Control to allow the bout to take  place. The rest only became history after a controversy erupted which  the paparazzi and media grabbed wholesale. It felt as though I, a little  105-lbs fighter with heart, was up against an army. But where there is a  will there is a way and on May 28th 2005, T&T had its first female  world boxing champion. Despite attempts to discredit my accomplishment  (hearsay that there was a previous T&T female world champion), my  name was on the box record listing, with a T&T flag right next to  it. 
Unfortunately, my struggles didn’t end there as I was denied  several accolades and it was funny since the persons who were voted in  my place, would always come and apologise to me. And so there were many  more chapters of hardship, bias and controversy which tarred my mission,  my financial support, my boxing pathway and my name.
But in chaos  there is always a silver lining. The young woman and assault victim with  the optimistic smile agreed with this saying a few days ago at a BBR  session at the gym. Indeed, my popularity and opportunities to improve  the lives of others came as latent blessings in my journey. Fights came  and went, I won some, I lost others. Then came the hiatus when there was  no Boxing Board in place to sanction bouts so I refocused on kickboxing  and copped the Pan-American title in November 2008.
Scenes of  despair followed — unfortunately Jizelle Salandy, my co-boxer, died in a  vehicular accident early in 2009 and scenes of new opportunities — a  collaboration with promoter Boxu Putts aided my capture of a few more  world titles and some more awards. But these feats didn’t save me from  the criticism of the so-called boxing pundits despite the filled VIP  seats for boxing bouts and a new interest by fans in boxing. 
Eventually,  my focus took a turn around and my involvement in the Defence Force  Physical Training Instructors course (2014), the Trinidad and Tobago  Olympic (TTOC), my involvement in Fine Line as a coach, athlete and  administrator sealed and my enrollment in the International Amateur  Boxing Association (AIBA) certification paved a the road to BBR. It  seemed like my destiny as my final assignment project for the  International Coaching Enrichment Certification Program (a coaching  education program facilitated by the United States Olympic Committee and  the University of Delaware, and funded by the International Olympic  Committee) morphed into my life project and purpose.
Today I am  looking beyond the ring. While my boxing career has been punctuated with  highs and lows what I hold dear to me are the lessons learned, the  experience gained and the opportunities presented. My years through the  sport has given me so much and has provided me with the platform on  which I can truly seek to make a valuable difference to T&T. BBR is  my win now, my new belt and I know it will be the victory for many women  throughout Trinidad and Tobago.
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